Whenever in problem, they try to comfort you by saying that all have similar problems or have at least experienced the same pain. You hate it, don’t ya? You hate to know that your pain isn’t that different and that you are not so ”special.” makes you think you are weak, and perhaps even pathetic. there is nothing special about you. I know you are going through some pain, but you know what, get over it. at least there is one thing about that is not so complicated. I know you think there is a beauty to sadness, but there is nothing about it that is related to beauty… how can you even see beauty in your biggest nightmare?